it is very simpler that u can imagine

just u need to download SSHFS-2.4.1.pkg from http://osxfuse.github.io/ project
btw there is nice gui for this on the same project page – but I do not need it and a lot of ppl says it is buggy under Lion

so downloading https://github.com/downloads/osxfuse/sshfs/SSHFS-2.4.1.pkg
and that just making folder to mount remove server in

mkdir ~/Desktop/remote

and then just mount remote directory to it

sshfs [email protected]:/home/danik/public_html ~/Desktop/remote